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WHAT IS THE FORMULA FOR SUCCESS?

Posted: September 11, 2013 in ALIVE INSPIRATION
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I have always asked myself this very simple question  which is; what is the Formula for Success? What does one need to do to ensure that he or she becomes successful?

Well after many years of studying and thinking success was achieved by hard work, intelligence and brilliance it’s amazing to know that all the above only plays a little part in how far you go in LIFE.

Explore the below formula with me and see that success is determined most by one attribute that almost everyone can inculcate.

SYNOPSIS (do the math yourself)

If
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

Is equal to
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26

Then
H+A+R+D+W+O+R+K =
8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%

K+N+O+W+L+E+D+G+E =
11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%

L+O+V+E=
12+15+22+5= 54%

L+U+C+K =
12+21+3+11 = 47%

None of them makes 100%. Then what makes 100% ???

Is it Money? NO !!!

Leadership? NO !!!

Every problem has a solution, only if we perhaps change our “ATTITUDE”.

It is OUR ATTITUDE towards Life and Work that makes OUR Life 100% Successful.

A+T+T+I+T+U+D+E =
1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%

Your ATTITUDE determines Your ALTITUDE

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So what is the difference between an adventure and an ordeal? Attitude! I’ve seen it hundreds of times. So have you. A group of people are caught up in challenging circumstances, say a hurricane. Some choose to feel exhilaration, some choose to feel burdened, even despondent.  Even something as simple as going from one place to another can show you what attitudes people choose to take on. Some get caught up in the adventure of it all; some curse the ordeal. Same situation. Different attitude.

What is the difference between gratitude and resentment? Attitude! What adds the color, the depth, the uniqueness, the rewards to your life? The experiences you have. Some choose to resent the experiences (problems, trials and tribulations) that life throws at them. Some choose to be grateful for the experiences (challenges and opportunities) that life offers them. The difference between a problem and an opportunity is attitude; between a tribulation and a challenge is attitude. In other words, the difference between winners and whiners is attitude. A negative attitude turns a mere bump in the road into a mountain of an obstacle. A positive attitude turns a mountain into a challenge to gain both strength from the task of surmounting it and a greater vista to view the opportunities that lie ahead.

What is the difference between happiness and misery? Attitude! Just ask my meter readers. I did. “How do you like your job?” I asked. My water meter reader told me, “I love it.” Why? “I get to be outside all day instead of trapped in some office. No one is looking over my shoulder and the job itself is so simple, I don’t have to even think about it. Walking miles each day keeps me fit. I love dogs and get to make friends with many in my rounds.” My electricity meter reader told me, “I hate it.” Why? ” It’s either too damn hot or its raining. If I was in an office, I’d at least have air conditioning. And its boring. No one to talk to. Every damn day is the same. They won’t even give me a scooter to ride and I’m sick of walking miles and miles every day. Plus, many people have dogs and I am always afraid of getting bit.” Same deal for both. One is happy. One is miserable. Why? Attitude.

What is the difference between success and failure? Attitude! In his long quest to find the exact filament that would allow the creation of an electric light bulb, Thomas Edison was asked by a reporter how it felt to have failed almost a thousand times. He replied that he had not failed, he had successfully eliminated a thousand ways that did not work and was thus closer to discovering the one that would work. His attitude determined his continuous perceived success and his ultimate real success. Without that attitude, he may likely have given up. Others before him had already given up on that same quest. With that attitude, he was able to persist until he succeeded. His choice of attitude created his success.

Sometimes, even the difference between life and death can simply be an matter of attitude. The survival rates of cancer patients (and those with other terminal illnesses) is proven to often depend on nothing more than their attitude. Read “Humor and Healing” and other books by Bernie Segal. Likewise, people who get caught up in disasters often survive because of an attitude of faith, hope or optimism while people right beside them perish because of an attitude of despondency or pessimism. They give up and die. Their attitude kills them. Of course, if they still could after being dead, they’d likely blame it on the circumstances and not their attitude.

What determines your attitude? Your choice. Yes, you may have inherited a predisposition to a certain general attitude towards life from your parents or your cultural heritage; but, in each moment you have the capacity to choose your attitude. You can, by conscious volition, train yourself to have the attitude that will bring you the happiness and the success you desire to have in life.

It is always within your power to choose to have the necessary attitude that creates adventure instead of ordeal, gratitude instead of resentment, happiness instead of misery, success instead of failure, a full and exciting life instead of a mere existence or even death.

I will even go so far as to say that it is your choice of attitude that determines whether or not you actually deserve to have the happiness and the success you desire.

So, get conscious about your choice of attitude. Choose wisely. It may not be everything, but it is pretty darn close.

“The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than success, than what other people say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make a company, a church, a home. The remarkable thing is that we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we embrace for that day. We cannot change our past; we cannot change the fact that people behave in a certain way; we cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is to play on that one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% of what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you. We are in charge of our attitudes.” ~ Chuck Swindoll

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In Wealth we Trust {Part 2}

Posted: January 6, 2012 in ALIVE INSPIRATION
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In theory when people think if wealth they think of money or in most presumable cases anything that has monetary value to it but they fail to realize that that’s just the result of true wealth. Wealth is a state of MIND. It’s a state of mind that when wrapped around any idea brings about wealth or could also bring about poverty. Wealth is also a legacy that is born out of a wealthy mindset (MIND WEALTH… coming soon)
In part 1 We looked at concepts around building our own inspiration in order to build our own wealth. Recognising the ability, potential and value we already hold internally before seeking wealth externally. The need for a strong desire to learn new things which can have a powerful impact on our ability to innovate and be creative. The need to have strong courage in spite of fears and in spite of tremendous obstacles. We looked briefly at the need to have a very clear purpose when seeking to create wealth, since we can never arrive in any location unless we have a clear destination.
In part 2 we now look at some more principles that contribute to “rich wealth” creation.
1.     Building and maintaining a positive attitude. 
  • The path to any objective can be difficult. But for anyone seeking a path to wealth be it money, health, good relationships, happiness, fulfilment the perspective taken on that journey is the key to success and the key to failure. For those who can retain optimism, believe, faith, confidence, a positive perspective, a greater vision for the world around them even in spite of what reality maybe indicating, they hold the key to a greater outcome. As one of history’s greatest thinkers said “Happiness depends upon ourselves”, Aristotle. In essence, our attitude depends upon ourselves. And so our outcome depends on ourselves.
2.     Holding high ambitions. 
  • The levels of attainment in life and attainment in wealth are decided by us and no one else. The ability to achieve higher wealth in life starts with the need, the desire and a higher ambition for wealth. As is well known a shot for the stars which fails cannot not leave any one in deprivation. However, a shot for the roof that fails may not end quite so attractively. High ambition can only be a win win scenario, since failure can still mean success and success of course means success.
3.     The need to take action. 
  • The thinking process, the perspective taken, the level and intensity of desire, the dreams, the strength of beliefs, the courage, the strength of purpose and the power of ambition are ultimately of no relevance until we are willing to enact what we desire in wealth. This may seem like a very obvious point, however when we look at the number of people who go through life with ideas, desires, dreams, ambitions but never act on them its fair to say that the world would be a better place they did. More over civilisations advancement would be swifter if dreams were empowered with relentless actions and dedicated activity. This one principle alone can often explain the difference between the “potentially wealthy” and the “actually wealthy”
4.     The desire to provide leadership. 
  • If standing at the front of the room can present challenges when trying to achieve an objective, imagine what it would be like sitting at the back of the room when trying to achieve the same objective. To achieve greater wealth often requires leadership, and need to step forward into the light. Leadership requires the utilisation of characteristics that fortunately most of us already possess. “A purpose is to serve. To serve is to lead. To lead is to inspire. To inspire is your purpose”. Focusing these traits towards a clear but shared purpose and utilising the ability to communicate that purpose to others can potentially lead to the enhancement of wealth of many different kinds. True leadership does mean giving more to those around us. A wealthy man and an example of this type of leadership once said “Good leadership consists of showing average people how to do the work of superior people”. John D. Rockefeller. Leadership just like wealth creation is not just about being able to see the top of the mountain but taking each step along with those around us.
5.     Rich wealth creation comes from understanding the VALUE within one’s self in order to materialise the VALUE outside one’s self. 
  • This is the most important principle of all. Any wealth creation is an internal not an external concept. While anyone can ultimately achieve health, happiness, riches, good relationships and fulfilment we first have to see these things within before they can ever manifest in reality. The motives, the intentions, the morals, the values given in acquiring wealth must also be pure if the giver wishes to become a true receiver of “rich wealth”. “All the breaks you need in life wait within your imagination, Imagination is the workshop of your mind, capable of turning mind energy into accomplishment and wealth”. Napoleon Hill.
I hope you can extract as much VALUE as you possibly can from part II, along with part I. look forward to sharing some ideas with you again. If you have any comments, please feel free to share them.
Thanks a million
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